Yelling out of love?

I have read somewhere that says ‘if you are not yelling at your kids, then you are not spending enough time with them’. I say there should be no yelling in the house unless there is fire or emergency.

Saya dibesarkan oleh seorang abah yang penyayang dan jarang menaikkan suara. Seingat saya, sepanjang kami lima beradik membesar, jarang kami lihat emak dan abah bergaduh (mungkin juga mereka bergaduh tapi bukan di depan kami). Abah akan denda dan marah sekiranya kesalahan yang dibuat itu membawa kepada bahaya dan mudarat (seperti main api, baca komik, dan bermain sampai tak ingat nak balik rumah walaupun dah senja).

Kata mesti konsisten dengan perbuatan.

Hate the sin, not the sinner. 

 


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